It’s a New Year and a New Month

It’s a new year and a new month and I always think of Elvis in January since his birth date was 1/8/1935. We were an Elvis family with me in the lead, although my mother didn’t mind hiding behind me in her swooning (she was born the same year as Elvis). I wrote this song after she died (August 16, 2023) – the same “day” that Elvis died.

This story is fictional but the photos are real. I miss those days more and more.

Photos:

Swimsuit beauties – my mother and her friends on Balboa Island, California. My novel “Letters on Balboa Island” is loosely based on those adventures.

My mother’s kids – my sister, brother, and me.

My Wish List for 2026 #cruising #restless #travel #music #writing

We found ourselves hanging out at Port Canaveral again today. We love watching the cruise ships. That’s how we found ourselves cruising on Utopia of the Seas last summer. That was a 3-day test cruise for Royal Caribbean (did not expect to like this cruise line) – we thought we’d be 1 and done. Instead, it instigated a 7-day cruise on Star of the Seas, my 25th cruise.

And once onboard Star of the Seas, not only did we have a blast with the nightlife – a Jazz Supper Club, Disco Night, 80s night, a romantic dinner at Chops Grille, and an evening at Lou’s Jazz Club, but we went on a sunset catamaran sail out of St. Thomas. Simply fabulous! So then we booked the brand new not yet sailing Legend of the Seas.

I’m been feeling so restless since then. I’m dying to get back out to sea. We have plans for a March cruise on Sun Princess and are double-booked next December on the newest Royal Caribbean ship, Legend of the Seas from Fort Lauderdale, but also Discovery Princess from L.A. We can’t be in both places at the same time so we’ll see which cruise wins.

Sounds fabulous right? But in the meantime, how do I stay landlocked in my house? I realized watching “Gone With the Wynns” on youtube and their latest boating lifestyle, that I really need to hit the road. Live in an RV, live on a boat. I need to be more mobile. Land or sea, it doesn’t matter. I just can’t stay home like this. I never really could. Isn’t it time for the next leg of “The Journey“? I may continue that story this year.

So to tide me over, I put together this video paired with 3 of my favorite songs I wrote in 2025. You might have heard them before. 😀

Best of 2025 – Happy New Year

Here it is the last day of 2025 and I decided I should put together a collection of clips from my favorite songs I wrote in 2025.

Liner notes for each song are in the description on YouTube.

Thank you all for stopping by to read, listen, like, and comment!

Happy New Year!

A Songwriter’s Lament #songwriting #badsongclub

Excerpt from this week’s Bad Song Club:

More than once, I’ve heard a songwriter mid-session dismiss a lyrical or melodic idea outright because it bore too strong a resemblance to something they’d written previously. I don’t know why this is, but, more than practitioners of any other art form as far as I’m aware, songwriters act like it’s our cosmic destiny to constantly reinvent the wheel.

Tell me why Monet got 250 chances to paint waterlilies, and ceramicists can make a hundred clay bowls, but every song idea has to emerge from whole cloth or else it’s “derivative” or “unoriginal.”

Other mediums seem to inherently understand the value of refining an idea over time, also known as iterative practice. For one thing, most ideas are multi-faceted and require more than one examination in order to be fully understood. For another, feelings change over time; the song you wrote in anger a year ago might hit different now that your rage has cooled. Maybe you came up with a great melody/chord progression for one song, but it never really gained traction in your repertoire for whatever reason. Should that brilliance be doomed to languish in obscurity simply because it was already promised to another song? Heck no.

I couldn’t agree more. We’re so hard on ourselves. On our music. Thinking it’s all crap. Especially if we don’t have people praising it as often as we’d like. But sometimes it’s good to re-listen to a song you’ve written, produced, recorded and appreciate what’s good about it. And with the FAWM community, I get to revisit all the lovely comments I got. Here’s one I’m especially proud of.

To All the Ladies Who’ve Been Ghosted

So here I am this morning sipping my coffee, telling a story about my disco days, my black disco outfit, my black (Le Black Cat) Capri and I remembered this song from FAWM 25. And the story behind the song and how it may have a new name (ghosting), but it’s nothing new.

What’s a girl to do? Live your best life, of course. :)

(This song is from the “7 Keys to my Heart” album on Bandcamp).

A Woman’s Dilemma

People often ask me how living in Las Vegas compares to living in Florida and this (in the video) is what I tell them. As for the rest, it comes from a lifetime of people watching and eavesdropping – lol!

The song is a remix of an original I wrote during 50/90 2023 called “A Woman’s Dilemma.”

Hope you enjoy!

What Is A Musician?

Reading a sample of “The Music Lesson” by Victor Hooten, I found validation for what I’ve been saying all along:

“You are just a bass player. That means you play the bass guitar. A true musician, like me, plays Music and uses particular instruments as tools to do so. I know that Music is inside me and not inside the instrument. This understanding allows me to use any instrument, or no instrument at all, to play my Music. I am a true musician, and one day, you too shall be.”

And goes on to compare a musician with a writer:

“A true writer can write using a typewriter, a pen, a pencil, or anything else that he chooses. You wouldn’t call him a pencil writer, would you? Your understanding that the writing utensil is just a tool allows you to see past it and into the truth of what he is–a writer. The story is in the writer, is it not? Or is it in the pencil? Your problem is this: You have been trying to tell your story with a bass guitar instead of through it.”

Bravo! In too many music circles, people are being judged for using their DAW (Digital Audio Workstation) as their main instrument instead of a guitar or piano or whatever. Being treated like they’re not a *real* musician.

My very first instrument was an electric organ. *Electric” – did you catch that? I’ve been using electronic instruments since I was 7 years old. Yet, I’m being treated as if my music isn’t *real* music. I’ve been involved with computers since my first *real* job in 1976. Boomers are often criticized for not knowing computers or understanding electronic music. But not this one. Old or new, they’re all just tools.

I may also play a piano riff and mix it inside my music. Or even a guitar riff (Yes, I have two guitar–acoustic and electric). I may even use a loop. Gasp! (as if the “professionals” don’t). Because it’s all about experimenting with different tools for the sake of the song. The *music.”

I love music, all kinds of music. And a DAW gives me the power to focus on the music and not just one instrument, which I always found so boring! I don’t play any one instrument well! I got too bored to just focus on that one instrument. Especially the violin – lol! But I love the sound of all these instruments. And I love mixing many sounds together to make music.

In my great grandfather’s day, they didn’t have DAWs. But loving music, he crafted several instruments and played them all. Those are the tools he had. And these are the tools I have (acoustic, electronic, and digital instruments). I’m so thrilled to have these tools. Because it’s all about the music.

None of this addresses the whole AI situation. But, perhaps, there’s room for that, too. If viewed as just another tool.

And now I need to download the rest of that book.